It was amazing seeing so many of you at ILTM in Cannes. This is by far our favorite international show, not because we get to see you but also because we get to enjoy Cannes all lit up for the holidays. It looks like something straight from a postcard. The weather has been more forgiving this year, not as cold, however the light snowfall is definitely missed.
That said there are two main reasons I love coming here. First, I get to see all of you, and I get to be in Cannes. The yearly ritual of pizza on the final night at Le Vesuvio is a tradition started by my friends and advisor partners, Sandy, Ena, and Melissa. Though they were not in Cannes this year, the tradition lived on with a lively spirit and plenty of laughter so much that I’m sure the wait staff couldn’t wait for us to leave. Second, the macaroons, which are not for me. Let me explain. My wife and my early teen daughter eagerly look forward to the French macaroons I pick while transiting through Paris. The packaging keeps them fresh while amazing advisor partners like Alyson Nash help translate into French what I can barely say in English, “Keep these on ice. I will be back to pick them up, so they stay fresh for the trip home.” Thanks to all these wonderful people and more who helped me feel at home in Cannes.
This year might have been our most productive yet. Thanks to the digital avatar platform my friend Dr Jill Schiefelbein helped connect us with, daily videos of Flat Ash (yes he is back), are being sent to each day’s meeting attendees along with a landing page that helps continue the conversation. That means we finally break the cycle of sending those dreaded “I wanted to follow up with you” emails that we all know don’t get read. Instead, we are providing instant access that is both efficient and respectable of our advisor partners’ valuable time.
You can check out that video and landing page here – The Big Five Effect
As Cannes wraps up, the annual migration to Egypt begins as the 2025 Egypt Educational starts in the next few days with incredible advisor partners joining us for what will be an unforgettable journey. Stay tuned for that dispatch.
In the mean time, Au plaisir de vous revoir. Next stop, Cairo!
2025 Impact Report – Big Five Tours & Expeditions
As I wish our US Partners a Happy Thanksgiving, a thought entered my mind, when I was speaking with my colleagues about the message. Every year, the same static message goes out with a holiday greeting wishing you a safe holiday. While we echo that, a different idea took shape. How do we show gratitude, more than simply expressing it? How do we inspire gratitude more than simply wishing it for someone else?
Enter, our first ever Impact Report. An annual project that is not only part of a B Corp deliverable, more importantly, it is a way for us to illustrate gratitude. We get asked regularly about the positive effect our work and our existence have in the communities we have. How do we quantify it without using general numbers? How can we quantify it on a granular level?
Well, that started with the travel jobs report we released a few weeks ago, taking all of our destinations through an 8 month study to showcase how many jobs one booking supports or creates.
We did this because world leaders demonstrated repeatedly, that their understanding of the aggregate contribution tourism makes to the global GDP left a lot to be desired. Instead of being upset, I was grateful they couldn’t compute it. That allowed our project to serve a clearly needed purpose. That report was was the basis for our global impact report, and the positive effect our efforts are having from Flamingo Preservation in northern Peru, to Rhino Anti-Poaching in Kenya, to Cultural Preservations in the Amazon Jungle, to Women’s Micro Entrepreneurship in the Andes.
So on this Thanksgiving, we give thanks to all of you who partner with us, whether you are in the US, Canada, India, Australia, New Zealand or anywhere else. Sending your guests with Big Five and allowing them to be part of our positive impact process, is the very reason this was possible.
We exist because of you. Our work exists because of you. We are so much more than a travel provider, because of you.
Happy Thanksgiving, please enjoy reading our Impact Report. We kept it short, and pardon the pun, impactful.
The offices will be closed on Thursday, November 27th and Friday, November 28th in observance of the holiday.
2025 Impact Report – Big Five Tours & Expeditions
I just returned from my latest trip to Colombia – my 43rd visit, to be exact. This time it was a quick stop, just long enough to see Medellín’s ongoing transformation quietly unfolding in plain sight. I have to admit, writing this makes me feel like I’m channeling my inner New York Times travel editor….you know, those 36- or 48-hour city guides by Nell McShane Wulfhart? I love those articles. So here I am, ironically once again writing from a plane seat, sharing my best Nell McShane Wulfhart-style take on Medellín. No transformation tour, no museums, and definitely no Comuna 13 (which, sadly, has become Colombia’s new poster child for overtourism).
This time, it was four comunas – 14, 10, 6, and 3 – in 48 hours. This 36th visit to Medellín offered a completely new way to experience one of my favorite cities. From a community kitchen cooking class tucked away in a secluded neighborhood that doubles as a social impact project, to exploring the country’s largest private orchid collection on the way to the airport, to a coffee experience that skips the bean tasting in favor of farm-to-bean eating high up in the hills – this is the Medellín you HAVE to see.
The highlight? Comuna 3 and the inspiring Constellations Project. It took me 36 visits to finally hear someone say what truly needed to be said – and Javier in Comuna 3 did just that. There’s a significant generational gap there, especially among those aged 31 to 52, and bridging it will require thoughtful, responsible tourism. (More on that soon in a blog post and podcast episode.)
Oh and I’ve found a new favorite hotel in Medellín. I even have another cocktail named after me. (ego stroke)
Enjoy the video.
On Monday, November 3, after a long wait and years in the making, the Grand Egyptian Museum (GEM) was finally inaugurated. It was an incredible feeling to witness this moment in a country where I’ve spent so much time – a journey that began back in 2010. This marks a defining moment for Egypt, now home to the world’s largest collection of antiquities on display. It’s worth clarifying, however, that while many say the GEM “officially opened” on Monday, the museum has actually opened in stages. With each new section unveiled, we’ve sent our colleague Nour to revisit and document her experiences.
This time around, the long-awaited arrival of King Tut’s artifacts and his dedicated hall, which I had the honor of seeing in 2023, is finally open with a complete display. In addition, many returned and newfound artifacts from all over were added to the display. Truth be told, if you were to stop and see each exhibit in each hall, it would take you no less than 3 hours. Good thing they have two coffee shops (and yes one is a Starbucks). When I first walked through the GEM years ago, I thought travelers came there to see the pyramids and while there, also see the GEM. I learned quickly from that visit way back, that it was in fact the other way around. The GEM is the crown jewel in Egypt’s history, and it’s just the beginning.
As is our custom, with the new development, Nour returned to the GEM and we share a video of what she saw, in raw form, along with her thoughts, written down as she was walking through the GEM. Enjoy this view of the inaugurated GEM through the eyes of a proud Egyptian. Her comments have been unfiltered and unedited to allow you to feel the emotion she felt.
Nour Abouseif: The road leading to the GEM all Egyptian icons. Spans over 6km.
Nour Abouseif: International flags crowning the lampposts. Signifying welcoming all global citizens.
Nour Abouseif: Setting of the grand opening is still up. It’s 10 am and the GEM is super packed.
Nour Abouseif: Took 20 years to finalize. Says that also Khufu took 20 years to build. Spectacular how time repeats itself.
Nour Abouseif: Ramses was the first thing to get moved. Took 10 hours to move. 85 wheeled vehicle moved him. Did a replica first to check if the movement would be successful. Replica of it is now in mansoura. They moved it first and then started building the entire museum.
Nour Abouseif: His daughter. Name consists of two titles Sat nisu daughter of the king. Hemet nisu which was confusing as they didn’t know if it’s the daughter or wife but then related to what we say now in upper Egypt ست أبوها which is the term used for daddy’s girl.
Nour Abouseif: Gem has over 100k pieces, showcases 50k and has continued to alternate the pieces.
Nour Abouseif: Ancient excel sheet. Showing سجلات حربية. Showing everything happened during the war.
Nour Abouseif: Non Egyptian statues – double chin and features. Double chin in statues is a default. Egyptian statues are always perfect and symmetrical whereas Romans aren’t. Found 25 years via frank godoeu. Were found Abu Kir in Alex. Along with other prices. المدينة الغارقة hiracleon.
Nour Abouseif: Original founder was kamal Abouel saadat, غواص مصري. There are still many pieces under the sea. Why were these pieces there at the gem? Because Egyptian culture is based on the support of women to their men. Reason why they are right in front of of the grand stairs all about الرحلة الي الأبدية
Nour Abouseif: As visitors ascend the Grand Staircase, they pass through symbolic temple gates, reminiscent of the sacred entrances of ancient Egypt.
Each gate marks a spiritual threshold — moving from the physical world toward the eternal.
The concept of “بر عنخ” (Per Ankh) literally means “House of Life.”
In ancient Egypt, these were cultural and educational institutions — places where priests, scholars, and artists preserved wisdom, science, and community values.
The design of this space revives that philosophy: The Grand Egyptian Museum stands today as a modern “House of Life”, where knowledge, art, and heritage continue to inspire and educate — bridging ancient civilization with contemporary society.
Nour Abouseif: At the last stage of the Grand Staircase, visitors reach the tombs, marking the culmination of the journey to eternity.
Here, the architecture mirrors ancient beliefs — every life, no matter how powerful, ends in the embrace of eternity.
In pharaonic tradition, a holy funeral was essential — a sacred transition ensuring the soul’s safe passage to the afterlife.
The surrounding light, stone, and geometry evoke the eternal calm of the tombs, reminding visitors that immortality is achieved not by power, but by purpose.
Nour Abouseif: Each illuminated showcase represents a community that once flourished along the Nile, from Upper Egypt to the Delta.
Together, they form a living map of how early Egyptians built their world around the river — where every settlement depended on its flow for life, growth, and connection.
Above, the soft blue lighting symbolizes the eternal current of the Nile, flowing through Egypt’s past and present — a reminder that civilization itself was born from water, rhythm, and renewal.
Nour Abouseif: Ancient Egyptian barbecue.
الحاتي originally from ancient Egyptian حات which means meat.
Nour Abouseif: Primitive look 4500BC.
Comes from تل الفرخة in dakkahlya. By بعثة اطالية in 1978. First image f leader and his son.
Wood that is gold plated. Eyes from lazurde. Necklace is carlinien which is a gem stone and the rest of it is from ostrich egg shells all indicates are of a high position.
Nour Abouseif: In ancient times, Egypt was divided into two lands:
For centuries, the two regions were in constant struggle — until King Narmer (Mina) emerged as the unifier.
The name “Mina” — of Coptic origin, meaning “the founder” — reflects his legacy as the first ruler to unite Upper and Lower Egypt under one crown.
By wearing the Double Crown (التاج المزدوج), Narmer became the first pharaoh of a unified Egypt, marking the beginning of the First Dynasty and the birth of one of the world’s greatest civilizations.
Nour Abouseif: Among the highest positions in ancient Egypt was that of the scribe — the thinker, the historian, and the voice of civilization.
This statue, discovered in Hesbet el-Gemeiz (حسب الجميز), depicts a scribe with ancient Egyptian eyeliner, symbolizing clarity and alertness — a detail that connects to the Egyptian verb “مءا”, meaning to gaze or observe deeply (يبحلق).
The figure is covered in plaster, preserving the vibrant pigments that reveal the rich colors of ancient Egyptian art.
“The voice of the people will perish, but the voice of the scribe will last forever.”
A reminder that while empires fade, the written word endures — and it is through the scribes that Egypt still speaks today.
Nour Abouseif: False door – door that is not true only place in the tomb. Offerings to be placed. Just like we do now. Offerings for spirituality reason. انت المعبد و فيك يسكن الإله
Nour Abouseif: They loved music too/ not all serious also enjoyed leisure time.
Woke up at sunrise worked till afternoon and then leisure time followed by sleep: harmony to life.
Nour Abouseif: Thurmose II or amenhotep II start of the golden age. This kings original name is gehuti Mes which is modern day abdelhakim – son of wisdom. Ruled over 17 wars without losing a single one. First man to make zoo. First ruler who brought Egypt chickens.
Nour Abouseif: Queen Hatshepsut – reason tuhutmose II entered the army. And raised him to be a great warrior. She ruled for 22 years and had great achievements and was a great time for peace and money making for ancient Egyptian history
Nour Abouseif: Ekhtnaton – even art changes in that times. Large lips and almond eyes.
Nour Abouseif: Bamboon monkeys not for religion. But used them to divide the days as by nature they pee every hour and used them as an alarm. With sunrise they climb the trees and sun gaze as the sun rises and once the sun rises they scream in celebration
Nour Abouseif: 6 statues for sekhmet. Used the terms neter to refer to kings and queens. Which symbolized the nature of strengths for all rulers not by gender. Sekhmet was done using the face of a lioness and the lioness is the one that plans and executes
Nour Abouseif: I’m about to enter King Tut!
Drum roll
Nour Abouseif: At the highest point of the gem
Nour Abouseif: Can you feel the crowd
Nour Abouseif: Entering king tut hall
Nour Abouseif: Tut was and still is a trend
Nour Abouseif: In November 4, 1922, a young Egyptian boy named Hussein Abdelrasoul, while fetching water in the Valley of the Kings, stumbled upon what would become the greatest archaeological discovery in history — the tomb of King Tutankhamun (KV62).
When Howard Carter peered through the small opening into the sealed chamber and was asked what he saw, his reply became immortal:
“I see wonderful things.”
That moment ignited a global fascination — Egyptomania, and specifically, Tutmania. Tutankhamun became not just a pharaoh, but a phenomenon — inspiring art, fashion, films, and imagination around the world.
The Egyptian film “المومياء” (The Mummy), starring Shady Abdel Salam, later captured this sense of wonder — the timeless dialogue between the living and the dead, between discovery and destiny.
Standing here today, on the anniversary of that discovery, the story comes full circle.
The treasures once hidden in the Valley now live again in the Grand Egyptian Museum — proof that Egypt’s wonders were never lost, only waiting to be seen anew.
Nour Abouseif: The symbol and the bottom showcasing black kemet – yellow dishrit which is desert land and the white peaks of the mountains which are white in color on LXR
Part III of our Peru dispatch is more of a customary one, a visit with Kipi the robot, an active foundation project, and our largest grant to date. Before sharing more about this visit with Kipi and the next phase of work, I want to take a moment to explain how our foundation operates. It’s structured quite differently from most, built from the ground up with integrity, clear goals, and a strong sense of purpose.
Big Five has long been involved in community initiatives, dating back to the early days when we tried to convince safari travelers not to smoke on game drives (ironically, my father was a chain smoker at the time). But it wasn’t until 2005 that our foundation took formal shape, thanks to the guidance of someone I consider both a mentor and a brother, who was the ambassador to the foundation in the early days. Together, we set out with a simple, powerful goal: to provide small grants that hold recipients accountable, with multi-year commitments renewed only when progress reports are timely and transparent. The challenge, as with many well-intentioned projects, was avoiding the pitfalls of overstaying our welcome or inviting corruption through entitlement. To counter this, we designed a model that I’m deeply proud of that became central to Big Five’s certification as a B Corp.
Every new project begins with a one-year trial period funded entirely through our family endowment. This allows us to test the project’s stability and ensure that all agreed-upon guidelines are being upheld by both recipients and foundation trustees. Once a project proves successful, it must present a multi-year plan with the goal of becoming fully self-sustaining within eight years. That is our timeline for completion and why you’ll see projects constantly shifting with the Spirit of Big Five Foundation. Beyond eight years, partnerships risk shifting from collaboration to dependence, or even resentment which we want to avoid. At present, we have several active projects across Peru and one in Guatemala. One of our Peru initiatives is nearing its eighth year and will soon wind down, while new projects are being tested or entering evaluation phases in Egypt, Colombia, and Kenya.
Which brings us to our fruitful partnership with Walter and Kipi now in its fourth year. This initiative began in 2021, in the wake of the pandemic, and was introduced to me under memorable circumstances while cracking the back axle of a Toyota Hilux on a sand mound in the Illescas Peninsula of northern Peru. What began as an effort to educate children without internet access and protect them from trafficking has since evolved into a language preservation project aimed at safeguarding endangered indigenous dialects in the Amazon. The next phase focuses on manufacturing ten new “Kipi Mini” robots, which will transform the learning environment in nine schools across Huancavelica, Peru. This stage also includes the production of 300–500 full-color workbooks designed to accompany the robots’ lessons, enhancing both teaching and student engagement.
I was asked by someone why explaining the foundation and its work is so important. The answer is simple. This is how I honor my father. This notion of helping others was the central part of the legacy he left for us to follow.
Enjoy the video.
Have you ever wanted to visit a place so badly, only to have your plans continuously derailed by things beyond your control? That perfectly sums up my long pursuit of reaching Huaraz. Over the past decade, I’ve made several attempts to get there, and only there, bypassing Cusco and Machu Picchu (both incredible places I’ve visited multiple times) in search of a new challenge.
My goal has always been the Cordillera Blanca, affectionately called the “Patagonia of Peru”, a region I’ve dreamed of exploring for years. But fate had other plans: first a washed-out road stopped me before the 8-hour drive even began, then a car breakdown, then geopolitical issues. It felt like the universe was conspiring to keep me away. Finally, after returning from my 2024 Peru adventure, it seemed as though the stars aligned – a new flight from Lima to Huaraz was launched, running frequently and soon becoming daily. What was once a grueling 8-hour drive had transformed into a 1-hour, 5-minute flight, complete with breathtaking views reminiscent of the French Alps on approach.
That is where part II of our dispatch begins. To this point, we had explored the Sacred Valley, Machu Picchu, and Cusco with the infamous Cris, aka Jon Bon Jovi (did I mention to you, we all serenaded him with a Bon Jovi song when we first met in Cusco?). Now we were off to join professor, author, and anthropologist, Carlo in Huaraz, the foremost authority on the site of Chavin and the history that occurred up here, over 5000 years ago.
I am such a nerd, self admittedly. I think my middle name is Luis Skolnik (Gen Z, ask your parents who that is, trust me they know). So I made a list of every Egyptian King from the 1300 BCE to the common era, in order to place where this history takes place, much of it during a parallel time when Ramses II was ruling in Egypt. I did this, because much like some of the thought leaders in this space working at the most well-known museums, I am of the belief that these two empires were not living in isolation of each other, and that our theories of plate tectonics before the common era need to be revisited, since much of the history we learned is being rewritten by new discoveries regularly.
Once we place the time frames together, the eerie similarities in some of the architecture and rituals are too hard to ignore. Even the history at Tumshukaiko in Caraz and Chavin, had similarities to ancient India and the story of Shiva, that were just too strong to ignore. As humans, we are all connected in some way. My finance brain refuses to believe that, however my history and knowledge quests know that to be true, too many similarities and coincidences to ignore. That, my friends, is the center of my desire to visit the region of Ancash. Tie that in with authentic interactions with communities like Vicos, where we are among the first to be there, and hotels like Santa Cruz, entirely community run, with a heart bigger than the most luxurious of hotels, and you have a formula for the future of Peru.
Enjoy Part II of Peru Dispatch
It’s time for our annual dispatch from Peru, and this year’s adventure began with a dramatic start. Just as we landed, news broke that Peru’s sitting president had been impeached and removed from office, with the constitutional successor stepping in.
Now, before the headlines sound the alarm, it’s worth noting that this is actually the seventh president in six years. So, when my amazing group turned to me with raised eyebrows, I simply smiled and said, “Welcome to Peru!” Life carried on as usual, and unless you’re following local politics closely, you’d never know anything had happened.
From there, we made our way to the Sacred Valley, staying well hydrated to adjust to the altitude and preparing for our visit to the iconic Machu Picchu. If you are wondering why we tackled this so early in the trip, stay tuned for Part II and you’ll understand why.
Despite one traveler arriving late due to missed connections (and experiencing our signature WGS® service in action), we headed to the ruins as planned. A morning train took us to Aguas Calientes, followed by our private bus up the mountain, bypassing the usual two-hour line in true #bigfivin style.
Back in the Sacred Valley and onward to Cusco, we had a little surprise planned: an evening of cocktails and dinner at my favorite resto-bar in old town. It’s a hidden gem I discovered during the pandemic, now home to one of the top mixologists in Peru. While many of Peru’s culinary legends got their start in small, off-the-radar kitchens, it’s the cocktails here, and their unforgettable names, that truly set this place apart.
Check out this video to kick off our journey, and don’t miss Part II, where we venture so far off the beaten path, we became some of the very first visitors.
We started off the year sharing my father’s work, an alphabet he was working on at the time of his passing. At the end of 2024, we found his complete work and are releasing each letter throughout the year. This week, we share the next letter.
M – Mindfulness: A Journey Towards Inner Peace
In today’s fast-paced world, the pursuit of inner peace often feels like an elusive goal. Stress, anxiety, and constant distractions can leave us feeling overwhelmed and disconnected from our true selves. However, mindfulness offers a powerful tool to help navigate these challenges and cultivate a deeper sense of well-being.
What is Mindfulness?
Mindfulness is the practice of being fully present and engaged in the moment, aware of our thoughts, feelings, and sensations without judgment. It involves paying attention to our experiences as they unfold, rather than getting caught up in the past or worrying about the future. By adopting a state of active, open attention, mindfulness helps us to live more fully in the present.
At its core, mindfulness is about cultivating awareness. It means we don’t miss anything inside. It involves paying attention to our thoughts and feelings, in a non-reactive way. This heightened state of awareness allows us to step back from our habitual responses and gain a deeper understanding of our inner experiences. One of the most significant benefits of mindfulness is its ability to reduce stress. By focusing on the present moment, we can break the cycle of ruminative thinking that often fuels anxiety and stress.
Mindfulness also enhances emotional regulation. By observing our emotions without judgment, we can better understand and manage them. Moreover, mindfulness can enhance our relationships. By being fully present with others, we can listen more deeply and respond more empathetically. This presence fosters stronger connections and more meaningful interactions, which are essential components of healthy relationships.
In conclusion, mindfulness is a valuable practice that can significantly improve our mental, emotional, and physical well-being. By cultivating awareness and presence, we can navigate life’s challenges with greater ease and live more fully in each moment.
“The most precious gift we can offer anyone is our attention.
When mindfulness embraces those, we love, they will bloom like flowers.” – Thich Nhat Hanh
Be present and savor each moment.
Stay Tuned for Letter N
This week, we had a post ready to go, talking about the movements of primates in Uganda, and the process required to habituate gorillas and chimpanzees, which in some cases was over 3 years. For some reason, I had writers block, which happens from time to time. Then it happened, the news of Dr. Jane Goodall’s passing broke. So, this post is dedicated to the life, legacy, and memory of Dr Goodall.
As a teen, I had the honor of meeting her and have spent so many years learning from her work. In fact, it was while I was a sophomore at the University of Arizona, contemplating a shift from Mechanical Engineering to International Policy, when an interview of her was playing on the television in our dormitory lobby as I was walking back from my class on genocide in history.
I was mesmerized as it was less than 10 years before, that Dr Goodall was telling us about the chimpanzee war in Gombe, something according to her, shattered her hope that this trait was isolated to humans. As she says in this interview, which aired in 1997, the behavior broke her heart.
Back in 1974, Dr Goodall noticed a fracture in the community with part moving to the south. That family was named Kahama. During the years leading up to 1978, all the primates in Kahama were killed, which ended the existence of the Kahama community. The original community, named Kasakela, which were the victorious survivors then began to expand their territory before being pushed back. Dr Goodall, the amazing storyteller, talked about how she saw this happening in Gombe Stream and even how the fracture in Kasakela occurred.
In February of this year, I was at the chimp sanctuary at Ol Pejeta in Kenya, which, for a long period, was a partnership between the conservancy, Kenya Wildlife Service, and the Jane Goodall Institute. I was sharing the story of coming up here as a child with my father, and Dr Goodall’s interviews about the effect of PTSD and violent tendencies on chimpanzees in abusive situations or in unsuitable captivity with the local rangers, one of whom remembered me as his father was the ranger when I visited as a child. Dr Goodall did a good amount of research in the 80s on the long-term effects of trauma to chimpanzees and how it affects everything from the mood, balance, and general tendencies. It was on full display at the sanctuary in Ol Pejeta which the rescued chimps, removed from traumatic situations (including cigarette burns). I remember thinking in February, how Dr Goodall’s conclusions were more correct today than ever.
My biggest worry has always been that there were not enough people to carry her work forward. Sure, there are researchers and field workers, however she had the heart of an army, and it was visible to me as a child meeting her, and every lecture she gave in public settings and in closed settings.
I join the many ready to carry your mantle professor.
We started off the year sharing my father’s work, an alphabet he was working on at the time of his passing. At the end of 2024, we found his complete work and are releasing each letter throughout the year. This week, we share the next letter.
L – Life: Life is what you make it.
Life is fleeting, slipping away with incredible speed as we race through space at nineteen miles per second. Our most valuable asset today is life itself, the one thing we can truly call our own.
Life is both difficult and easy. It is our greed and ego that make it hard. This is a profound truth: once we truly see and accept it, we transcend it. When we understand and accept that life is difficult, it no longer feels difficult. Acceptance dissolves the struggle.
Life is simple. But our desires and unending wants make it complex.
Life is a fleeting dance, a delicate tapestry of moments that never return the same way. Regret is a heavy burden, weighing down the soul with missed opportunities and unsaid words. So, let’s not postpone anything. Seize each moment as it comes, with open hearts and outstretched arms, ready to embrace the possibilities before us. In the end, our regrets will not be about what we did, but about what we didn’t do—the words left unsaid, the dreams left unfulfilled.
Life is not always the way we want it to be. It is unpredictable and it continues to place problems as well as opportunities on our path, but it is always our choice to feel as a victim or to take control in every situation and learn with every step we take. In life, don’t leave anything for later—the coffee gets cold, interest fades, day turns into night, we grow up, we grow old, and life goes by. Later, we might regret not doing something when we had the chance.
Do what we are good at and love to do. Live one day at a time, and finally, trust a higher power or Universal Law to help us in our life journey and give us some support along the way. The choice is ours how we live our lives.
Three things in Life – our health, our mission, and the people we love. That’s it.
Life is nothing but the expansion of love. We must try to love all of humanity with the inner awareness, consciousness, and conviction that inside each individual is the living presence of God. –Sri Chinmoy
Life is a balance of holding on and letting go. – Rumi
Stay Tuned for Letter M
It is hard to imagine, that we are only 45 days away from the festive season. Now, I know what you are likely thinking… another festive post about space…well yes and no. Many of you have asked us to do a festive check-in around this time as this is the window when some space that was previously unavailable has become available for a variety of reasons. It’s for the last-minute procrastination warriors, the ones who never get talked about in those funny beer commercials.
As our dedicated partners, you asked us to let you know where possibilities still exist, not just for space, more importantly, where the on-ground experience is not compromised. Well, we created an amazing list of regions, where Big Five can still deliver the innovative, off-the-beaten path journeys we have become known for, equal parts social responsibility, and life-changing connections to the place and the people.
We’ve never been about “more people, more arrivals.” Instead, we focus on the right arrival, the right tour, the right client, and the best part, the right partner
Watch the video to explore where pockets of space remain, including Patagonia, Uruguay, Bolivia, The Galapagos Islands, Nicaragua, Egypt, East Africa, and South Asia, specifically India and Sri Lanka.
We started off the year sharing my father’s work, an alphabet he was working on at the time of his passing. At the end of 2024, we found his complete work and are releasing each letter throughout the year. This week, we share the next letter.
K – KNOW. Learn to KNOW. Spread love and positivity wherever you go.
During a recent coaching session, I found myself overwhelmed by the myriad of obligations in my life. You know how it is—there’s always something to do. I could hear myself saying, “I have to do this, and I have to do that, and this, and that…” I was clearly in “stress mode.” Not a pretty sight.
Marsha, my wise and wonderful coach, gently interrupted my frantic monologue. In her calm, reassuring voice, she asked, “Beth, instead of focusing on what you HAVE to do, what is it that you KNOW to do?”
That question was a revelation. It reminded me why we have coaches. It got me thinking: What do I KNOW to do? When we tap into our inner knowledge, aren’t we empowering ourselves to be truly authentic? Aren’t we, in essence, letting our conscience be our guide?
Consider this shift in perspective:
I “have” to work late vs. I “know” to go home and be with my family.
I “have” to respond to win vs. I “know” to respond with compassion.
I “have” to buy a new outfit vs. I “know” the clothes I have are fine.
I “have” to maintain a perfect house vs. I “know” I should play with my kids.
I “have” to make an impression vs. I “know” I am enough already.
Operating from a place of “have to” dishonors that inner voice whispering, “Listen to me—I know what’s best for you.” When we focus on the “have to’s,” we chase external validation and neglect our true selves.
By doing what we “know” to do, we express our authentic selves and let our intuition guide us. This approach enriches our lives and shapes our future in meaningful ways.
Next time you find yourself overwhelmed, take a moment to get quiet and ask, “What is it that I KNOW to do here?” The answer will reveal your true priorities and guide you towards them. Follow your heart!
I “have” to do it all myself vs. I “know” I need to delegate.
Embrace what we know and let it lead us to a more authentic and fulfilling life.
Stay Tuned for Letter L
Part II of our 2025 Migration Tales is here. Each year, we provide three updates covering different stages of Great Migration to help you follow herd movement throughout the year. These updates include live video from the field, giving you direct insight into where the herds are and how best to plan around their patterns.
A common misconception is that the migration lasts only a few months. In reality, it is a year-round cycle with key moments at every stage, moments we explore together in these tales.
In February of this year, I was in Tanzania and shared live video of the migratory herds in calving season. Down in the lower Serengeti, just north of Ndutu, we saw millions of zebras and wildebeest around us, and we were the only ones there for hours. Between the movements, the leopards, and the live births, it was the migration experience that so many miss.
Now, for those who want to hear the thundering hooves as the movement approaches and as the herds cross the famed Mara River, this tale is for you. This year, around mid-July, wildebeest and zebra started the arduous journey, daring to cross the Mara River. It was here that I insert my favorite passage about migration, written by a friend in a style that can only be called Hemingwayesque.
Enjoy the passage and the video, taken by our guides in the field at the river. The video entries you see this week were all filmed within the last 72 hours, raw, shaky cell phone footage that tells the story of the greatest show on Earth.
A Tale Told Through a Friends’s Eyes
The dust was the first thing. It was a fine, pale powder that rose from the earth with every hoof and coated the tongue. The sun was hard and white and made the short grass brittle. For days, the Gnu had moved south to north, a dark river of meat and bone flowing over the plain. The zebras were with them, their stripes a disruption in the solid, moving mass. They came to the river, and they stopped. The river was the Mara. It was wide and brown, and it did not look good. The Gnu milled at the edge, their foolish heads low, their calls a constant, nervous complaint. They could smell the water, and they could smell the green grass on the other side in Kenya. The smell of the grass was what drove them. It was a promise. For a long time, they did not move. The sun beat on their backs. The heat made the air shimmer over the water. A man could see the crocodiles on the far bank. They looked like logs, old and patient. They had been waiting. The river had been waiting. The crocodiles knew about the promise of the grass.
And suddenly one went. It was not a decision. It was a thing that happened. A bull, maybe, or a cow pushed from behind. It slid down the steep bank, its legs stiff with panic, and hit the water with a heavy splash. And then another went, and then a hundred, and then the bank gave way to a torrent of bodies. The sound was a great thing. It was the thunder of hooves on the mud and the panicked bellowing and the churning of the brown water. They were all in the water now, swimming with a desperate, ugly motion. Their heads were high, their eyes white with fear.
The logs on the other side were no longer logs. They moved into the current with a speed that was not natural. A crocodile took a calf. The water broke around the struggle and then was still. The calf was gone. The mother swam on. The herd pushed her on. There was no time for sorrow. There was only the other bank.
Another went down, its leg broken in the crush. It called out, a high, thin sound that was lost in the noise. The bodies pressed over it.
They fought the far bank. It was steep and slick with mud. Hooves scrabbled for purchase. An animal would pull itself halfway out, trembling with effort, then slide back. Another would push it from below. They climbed over one another, their flanks heaving. The first ones to make it stood shaking on the green grass. They were slick with mud and water. They did not look back at the river. The river was a bad thing, and it was done. They lowered their heads to the new grass.
In the Mara, the crocodiles fed. The water was thick with the dead and the dying. The vultures circled in the clean, hot sky, then began to drop. The river carried the bodies downstream. The sound quieted. The herd was already moving, a dark stain spreading across the green hills of the new country. The sun was still hot, and the plains did not care.
Since the herds have started crossing, we will say what we say every year around this time… They’re Baaaack!!
You know that we have been talking about social responsibility and using tourism as a force for good from before it was popular. Before the word sustainability became a household buzzword. At Big Five, the legacy of my father is simple, bring those that were marginalized like my parents and I to the light, and lift them up so they can do the same for others.
Well in 2015, Big Five set out on path to prepare for one of the most stringent audits on the planet, becoming a certified B Corporation. 10 years later, after a grueling assessment and audit process that went through our financials, our operation, and our footprint, I am so honored, to share that Big Five is officially a certified B Corporation. Out of 350 million businesses worldwide, we are among the now less than 10,000 that can say, we put our company to one of the hardest tests a company can endure, to prove to us, and most importantly, you, that our words and our work towards social responsibility passed this rigorous test. It’s a testament to the people I work with, heroes in their own right, and to all of you, our partners and your clients.
I don’t believe in coincidences, so you can imagine the lack of surprise when we noticed that on the week that we introduce the next letter in my father’s alphabet of emotional intelligence, J for Joy, an alphabet he was working on until his passing in 2024, that it matched up with this amazing announcement.
J – Joy Embracing the essence of Joy: Finding Beauty in Life’s Simple Moments
The importance of finding Joy through acceptance. It encourages us to embrace the present moment, accept things as they are, and find contentment within ourselves. It reminds us that happiness does not depend on external circumstances or achievements but rather on our attitude and perspective.
What is joy? Joy is about embracing the present moment with gratitude and appreciation. It’s about finding beauty in life’s simple pleasures. But joy is not always easy to come by. It requires a shift in perspective, a willingness to let go of worries and anxieties, and a commitment to living with purpose and mindfulness. It’s about choosing to focus on the good, even in the midst of adversity, and recognizing that happiness springs from within.
Simple formula find what brings you Joy and go there…
So how can we cultivate joy in our lives? It starts with self-awareness and self-care—taking the time to nourish our minds, bodies, and spirits. It means surrounding ourselves with people who uplift and inspire us, and engaging in activities that bring us joy and fulfillment. But perhaps most importantly, cultivating joy is about cultivating gratitude, and being truly thankful for the blessings we have been given.
Ultimately, Joy isn’t a destination; it’s the path we tread, marked by Letting Go of Expectations, Embracing Imperfections, Practicing Mindfulness, and Gratitude for the Present. It’s a journey that unveils itself one precious moment at a time. Let’s invite the beauty and marvels of the world into our hearts, letting joy light our way toward a life brimming with meaning, purpose, and love.
Joy blossoms when we acknowledge the goodness around us.
My father wrote, a few days before his passing, “Excellence is never an accident. It is always the result of high intention, sincere effort, and intelligent execution.” I believe this was what he meant.
I’m off to Las Vegas to see many of our advisor friends and amazing collaborators. As is our annual ritual, it is time for our pre VTW video. Come by, see us in the Sustainability Pavilion during Globetrotting on Saturday or Sunday. Learn about the community in the outer Amazon that benefits just by your visit and looking forward to seeing you during the week.
I don’t know how I manage to hold your attention during our meetings; I can’t seem to hold anyone’s attention in the office. Something about the Backstreet Boys and Superman’s dog seem to get in the way… watch the video you’ll see what I mean… as Rodney Dangerfield said, “I tell ya, I get no respect.”
See you in Vegas
In Part III of our Sri Lanka dispatch, I share Tatiana’s experience meeting someone at the Seagrass Restoration Project on the western shores, a project that Big Five guests can support during their adventure. I remember her messages while she was there, and you could hear the excitement in her words. As you read her thoughts, I wanted to share some background on this amazing project.
Big Five is proud to support Sri Lanka’s Seagrass Restoration Project in Kalpitiya. This initiative gives our guests the opportunity to engage directly in environmental conservation in remote communities by re-planting seagrass, which is crucial for maintaining healthy marine ecosystems. Each square meter (approximately 10.5 square feet) of seagrass planted can produce 10 liters (around 2.5 gallons) of oxygen daily through photosynthesis, act as a natural filter, and protect shorelines from erosion during storms.
For travelers visiting between October and March, this seasonal, hands-on experience not only benefits the environment but also creates a unique and rewarding connection to Sri Lanka. Even outside of those months, Big Five continues to support this initiative year-round through its Sri Lanka programs.
Sri Lanka is also a case study in the power of tourism. I had the pleasure of meeting the Sri Lankan ambassador to the United States, whose story and commitment to socially responsible tourism serve as a model for others to follow. We spoke at length about where Sri Lanka was just a few years ago compared to today, and the remarkable progress that has been made.
Through our track record of 50+ years at Big Five, I have always believed that the “magic number” for tourism as a percentage of a country’s GDP is 10. At that level, there are direct correlations to stability, economically and politically and today Sri Lanka today is living proof of that principle.
Below is Tatiana’s story.
When I first met Chathurika, I was immediately struck by her radiant personality, perfectly framed by a traditionally Sri Lankan smile that could light up a room. Her endearing charm was matched by an infectious enthusiasm that inspired all of us to lend our hands, gladly helping her pack seagrass into biodegradable bags.
What truly sets Chathurika apart is her unwavering passion for this project. She drove four hours just to reach the seagrass site, bringing along a university student eager to assist her. It was clear from their bond that her students admire and deeply respect her dedication.
Her commitment left a lasting impression on me. As she spoke about the project, she radiated joy and pride. The moment she revealed how much the seagrass had flourished since her last visit was unforgettable, her excitement was palpable. It was proof of the project’s success and of Chathurika’s extraordinary devotion to preserving this delicate ecosystem.
Part II of our Sri Lanka dispatch takes Tatiana’s journey further south. Her notes take you along to meet the people she met, and seeing first hand how these meetings were so impactful. Last dispatch, I would normally say a destination deserves our attention, however in Sri Lanka’s case, I think it would be more appropriate to say she has earned our attention.
Enjoy the video and part II
My trip to Sri Lanka – Part 2
By Tatiana Johnston
We arrived in Kandy, my fourth UNESCO World Heritage Site. What a colorful and captivating city. My first stop was a local market. I love markets as there’s always so much happening. They’re the vital pulse of any town, a true feast for the eyes with vibrant arrays of fruits and vegetables in every size and shape imaginable, each exuding unique aromas and scents. Fresh produce is everywhere, and the cheerful voices in Sinhalese invite you to sample and buy their goods. If you love mangoes, this will feel like paradise. I ate the most unbelievably delicious mangoes every single day.
My guide, Chami, picked a mango that I wouldn’t normally choose, and simply said, “Trust me.” And wow, he was right! I also discovered jackfruit: incredibly juicy and flavorful, with a taste that’s hard to describe, a mix of pineapple, papaya, and cucumber. When unripe, it’s cooked as a vegetable accompaniment. I tried rambutan, which resemble lychees, and locals are especially proud of the variety of bananas they grow, big, small, red, yellow, and everything in between. This is also a spice-lover’s haven, influenced by Portuguese, Dutch, British, and Indian culinary traditions.
Afterwards, I visited a local home for a traditional meal infused with tropical spices and rich Kandyan flavors. I met Krishanti, the lady of the house, along with her husband, and was especially moved by their beautiful 80-year-old grandmother, who still actively helps in the kitchen. She shared a story about meeting an American student in her youth with whom she practiced her English.
They welcomed me warmly, and we chatted casually. I felt completely at ease. I saw photos of their wedding, met their two daughters, grandchildren, and even the newest addition: a baby born just a few months ago. One grandchild came home from school with a colorful backpack and a beaming smile, filling the space with joy. It was such a treat to be part of this strong multigenerational family, living ordinary lives just like ours, and I felt honored to share a few moments with them.
Krishanthi, and her radiant, honest, and warm Sri Lankan smile allow me to step into the kitchen, and we talked about ingredients and she let me choose the vegetables for our meal, which was prepared using a traditional firewood stove. They showed me an ancient grinding technique called “miris gala” and they cooked everything in clay pots. According to them, a true Sri Lankan curry gets its unique finishing flavor from those pots, along with an abundance of spices and coconut milk. It was such a special, memorable day — I felt like I was visiting my aunt’s home for lunch.
That night I stayed at Taru Villas, a charming boutique hotel that once belonged to a noble family. Each room was uniquely decorated, blending old and new elements, and I was welcomed with a mango popsicle — such a refreshing treat in June’s heat!
Later, I visited the Temple of the Tooth, located in the heart of town, with the Mahaweli River on one side and the bustling city of Kandy on the other. This used to be the starting point for the grand parades honoring Buddha, as Kandy was the royal capital until the 19th century. I learned that the sacred tooth relic of Buddha symbolizes faith and power, and that whoever possessed it had the divine right to rule. The relic arrived in Sri Lanka in the 5th century, it was hidden across different regions, and eventually found its home in Kandy in the 16th century, where it remains until today. This relic is the city’s greatest pride. Stone-carved elephants flank the entrance protectively. The temple spans three floors, and on the lesser-visited second and third levels, I discovered a treasure trove of antiques — clothing, jewelry, tools, manuscripts, and other historic artifacts. I loved admiring the intricacy of each item, their craftsmanship surviving centuries.
After that, I walked to Queen’s Hotel, a once 19th-century property built as the Governor’s residence during the British rule. It later hosted distinguished guests who arrived by train, many on their way to visit the nearby tea plantations. It was there where I met Donald, a local resident with a Scottish name, who gave me a unique glimpse of the city’s timeless streets. We wandered down small alleys, stopping at places that reflect how locals unwind and dine after work. We visited the Royal Bar Hotel’s café, another iconic establishment with a colonial atmosphere. One room was filled with historic photos showcasing how Kandy has evolved over time. We passed Catholic and Protestant churches, mosques, and Buddhist temples, all coexisting peacefully side by side. We explored the everyday rhythm of local life, saw where people shop for dinner, and dined at a lesser-known restaurant where we tried “ulundu vadai”, savory lentil donuts with a surprising mix of spices and “dosai”, a giant crepe served in a pyramid shape, perfect for dipping into a variety of sauces.
Later, we hopped into a tuk tuk and climbed a hill for a breathtaking view of the city at sunset. A young couple was capturing their final photos against the radiant backdrop, and seeing their joy made me smile. I made sure to wish them happiness before we ended the evening with drinks at Helga’s Folly, a wild, whimsical, art-filled anti-hotel where Helga still resides. It was truly eccentric and utterly unforgettable.
That night I stayed at King’s Pavilion Hotel, nestled above the city with panoramic views and surrounded by lush forest. The hospitality was as heartwarming as ever.
The next morning began with a peaceful yoga session offered by the hotel, followed by a train journey to Hatton, the Tea Country. The ride was delightful, offering fresh perspectives of the city and passing through small villages, where children and adults waved at us as we passed. I gazed out at the spectacular tea plantations, one of Sri Lanka’s treasures. Chami met me at the station, and we drove to a lake that I needed to cross to reach my next destination: the Relais & Châteaux Tea Trails. I stayed at Castlereagh, one of five properties, each with its own distinctive charm. With only five rooms, it felt wonderfully intimate. I visited three of the five and adored them all with spacious accommodations, breathtaking views, and personalized service. The chef talks to you daily to discuss your meal preferences, crafting dishes with vegetables and spices grown right on the estate. You can even arrive from Colombo by seaplane. I had the chance to witness a sea landing and after that I think I might try that next time!
To cross the lake, you can take a motorboat or kayak. I chose the boat and arrived in time for a lovely al fresco lunch overlooking the lake and forest. The hotel has several walking trails, and naturally, I couldn’t wait to explore. Each trail passes small villages, serene shrines, and picturesque temples, culminating in the stunning tea plantations, like a tapestry covering the hills, neatly kept with small narrow paths among them used by the collectors to efficiently pluck the leaves, they are the custodians of this area, mostly women, wearing colorful dresses and carrying the baskets on their backs. Despite their busy work, they smiled and waved at me. Such lovely people!
My favorite moment came as I walked back to the hotel and befriended groups of schoolchildren. They were eager to practice their English, and we shared plenty of laughter and smiles. When it started to drizzle, they sweetly offered to share their umbrellas with me….what a beautiful gesture.
The next morning, I immersed myself further into the world of Ceylon tea, observing its production and learning the refined art of tea tasting. The resident Tea Planter led a perfectly paced exploration of tea cultivation’s colonial roots, its intricate manufacturing process, and the creation of varied flavor profiles to suit diverse palates. The experience concluded with a private tasting…. and just like that, I was hooked. Tea became my new favorite drink, and Sri Lankan tea is now my preferred choice.
Leaving was bittersweet, but the journey continued, off to explore one last gem, the coastal paradise of Sri Lanka.
Chami took me along a scenic, off-the-beaten-path route, and I took time to walk parts of it while he patiently waited for me. We arrived at Cape Weligama, a hotel set on 12 acres of land overlooking the Indian Ocean. The views were absolutely stunning. From there, I continued on to Galle — my last UNESCO World Heritage Site of this trip.
Along the way, we stopped to try the famous King coconut. I drank the juice, and Chami asked if I wanted to eat the coconut meat. I hesitated, having tried coconut before and not expecting much — but King coconut was a revelation. Bright orange in the outside, it was nothing like regular coconut: rich, savory, and silky soft meat inside.
We visited a small farm owned by a young couple. The husband had cared for his parents until their passing and inherited the land. He now grows cinnamon. I learned that Sri Lanka is the largest producer of this spice. Several locals told me that while Sri Lanka has many tea competitors, its cinnamon is unmatched in quality. I watched how the bark is harvested and peeled before drying it. Of course, I tried a cup of cinnamon tea, truly the best I’ve had. When I mentioned my love for King coconut, the farmer eagerly climbed one of his palms and brought me a fresh one. His wife was equally delightful. She showed me how to grind coconut with onions, paprika, and lemon, a simple, delicious blend you can add to any meal. She also prepared manioc, which I tasted with the coconut mixture, absolutely unforgettable.
Galle is breathtaking. Its charm lies in the old city nestled within the fort built by the Dutch. The layout and atmosphere immediately reminded me of Cartagena in Colombia, another UNESCO site. Both are encircled by historic forts and adorned with colorful houses, quaint coffee shops, vibrant restaurants, and eclectic boutiques. You can easily explore on foot, and the vibe is wonderfully relaxed. I wandered past the clock tower, Dutch churches, Buddhist temples, mosques, and the iconic white lighthouse.
In the afternoon, I met Shanjei, who helped me discover Galle’s true essence through a walking tour. He doesn’t call himself a guide; meeting him felt more like reconnecting with a storytelling friend. We visited the old Dutch hospital, now a lively restaurant complex with sea views. I heard fascinating tales of Dutch privateers (legalized pirates), Portuguese adventurers, and Muslim gem traders. It was a great afternoon that make me see Galle with different eyes!
I stayed in two different centrally located hotels. One night at the Galle Fort Hotel, with suites encircling the pool. What impressed me most was how thoughtfully antiques were integrated into the décor. The other was Taru Villas, another beautiful colonial boutique hotel. I especially loved the seating area adorned with incredible paintings and relics. One thing worth highlighting is Sri Lanka’s widespread awareness of sustainability and recycling truly admirable.
Later that afternoon, I walked to the fort walls to watch the sunset. I wasn’t alone; many locals were also winding down their day, eating ice cream with their families, children running joyfully around, young couples hand in hand, and passionate photographers chasing the last glimpse of sunlight. We were all there, captivated by the waves, the sun, and this beautiful country of Sri Lanka…
Welcome to 2025 Sri Lanka Dispatch Part I
My fellow Big Five colleague Tatiana Johnston was just in Sri Lanka exploring what Big Five does on ground. Stay tuned for an exciting three part dispatch. As a former guide, Tatiana brings a unique perspective to the sights of what we consider to be an emerging cultural giant. I had the pleasure of meeting his excellency, Mahinda Samarasinghe, Sri Lanka’s ambassador to the US while I was in DC as part of a congressional caucus for the travel industry. My other colleague, Colin Rose, a former guide himself, has talked about Sri Lanka for decades when he used to take guests through there as a guide. It’s been the driving force behind Big Five offering this amazing destination for almost 20 years now. We have seen the victories, and the struggles she has been through, and can’t wait to tell you all about the adventure, mythology, and sustainability in Sri Lanka. Enjoy Tatiana’s thoughts below and stay tuned for parts II and III of this dispatch.
My Journey through Sri Lanka
By Tatiana Johnston
Despite its modest size—roughly equivalent to the state of Indiana—Sri Lanka boasts an impressive eight UNESCO World Heritage Sites.
Eight may not seem like a large number at first, but consider that India—roughly 50 times bigger than Sri Lanka—has 34 UNESCO World Heritage Sites. In that context, Sri Lanka’s eight sites are remarkably impressive for such a small country. I was fortunate to visit five of them on this trip, and perhaps you will discover which one (or ones) became my favorite.
I arrived in Colombo early in the morning, greeted by my airport representative with a radiant smile. She did all my immigration and customs formalities while I relaxed in the VIP lounge, already sampling my first Sri Lankan coconut delicacies. Stepping outside, the warm, humid air wrapped around me like a welcome hug—a sensation I cherish, especially coming from a dry climate.
Soon I met my guide, Charmi, whose warm smile and professional demeanor instantly put me at ease. I didn’t know then that he would become more than just a guide—he was my teacher, mentor, brother, and even doctor. We spent countless hours discussing Buddhism, politics, history, geography, flora, fauna, and the vibrant life of Sri Lankan. His knowledge and passion made him a true ambassador of his country. I felt incredibly lucky to have met him.
On the way to the hotel, mango and papaya trees waved at me as we passed. The Wallawwa Hotel, reminiscent of a traditional Dutch building, was surrounded by lush gardens and even had a cricket field—the nation’s favorite sport. It was the perfect place to unwind, recover from the long flight, and ease into the new time zone.
One of the first things I learned was how to greet in Sinhala: “Ayubowan”, meaning “may you live long.” It struck me as profoundly beautiful—Sri Lankans wish each other longevity, regardless of who you are or where you come from. In contrast, many languages offer only a “good morning.” This simple greeting reflects the warmth and generosity of the Sri Lankan spirit.
As a history lover, visiting temples is a true delight. My first stop was Anuradhapura, one of the most sacred cities in Sri Lanka and my first UNESCO site. You could easily spend days here—each temple is a living museum wrapped in spiritual serenity.
I was awestruck by the tallest stupa in the world and the oldest temple in Sri Lanka, dating back to 247 BC. One of the most moving sights was a sacred fig tree believed to be over 2,250 years old, grown from a cutting of the original Bodhi tree under which Buddha attained enlightenment. Pilgrims from around the world come here to pay homage.
Following the local tradition, I offered blue water lilies, Sri Lanka’s national flower, to Buddha and joined others in prayer. The air was thick with hope and reverence. Locals brought flowers, food, clothes, and drinks, circling the stupas in peaceful devotion. I was especially captivated by the Samadhi Buddha Statue from the 5th century AD—its serene expression radiated peace and wisdom.
The area was full of holy banyan trees, their aerial roots entwined like symbols of unity. To me, they represented the world’s diverse faiths—distinct yet interconnected, all striving to become better human beings through Buddha, Allah, or Jesus.
I stayed at Uga Ulagalla, a boutique hotel centered around a 150-year-old mansion, with peacocks roaming freely through its gardens. I was deeply touched by the candle-lighting ceremony that welcomed me with wishes of health and peace.
My villa was spacious, with a lovely verandah where I sat in the evening, listening to a symphony of frogs and soaking in the magic of being on the other side of the world.
Here, I had my first taste of Sri Lankan cuisine—a feast of 27 small dishes served in a rice paddy field. Each bite was a burst of flavor: coconut, cinnamon, pepper, cardamom, lemongrass, curry, ginger, cloves, turmeric, shallots, and more. I savored each one slowly, letting the spices dance on my palate. It was an unforgettable evening. My belly was very happy.
The next day, I explored a local village, opting to hike instead of bike to better connect with nature. For longer stretches, we hopped on a tuk-tuk. What struck me most was the authenticity of the experience. I visited families who proudly demonstrated their crafts: broom-making, traditional Ayurvedic oil production, and brick-making. Their pride and joy in their work were palpable. My favorite stop was a girls’ dance school, where young villagers learn traditional dances after school—a beautiful symbol of community and empowerment. Before leaving, I shared tea with a local woman who spoke little English, yet we had a rich conversation through smiles and gestures. I still think fondly of that moment.
Lunch was prepared by a kind woman named Dilini, in a charming, stilted hut open to the breeze. She even let me help with the cooking. It was, without question, my favorite meal of the trip.
In the afternoon, I visited Sigiriya, my second UNESCO site. Also known as the Lion Rock, it once featured a massive lion’s head at the entrance—only the paws remain today, standing at each side of the staircase to the summit. Here, I learned about King Kashyapa who lived in the 5th century AD, and built this fortress as protection after he usurped the throne from his half-brother, who eventually regained power, and the fortress became a Buddhist monastery. The climb to the top—1,200 steps—was rewarded with panoramic views of lush forest around. At the top, you can find the reminiscent of what it once the palace where the King lived.
A detour led me up spiral stairs into the rock itself, where vibrant frescoes of buxom, flower-bearing maidens still shine with color and grace. The vivid, radiant paintings struck me deeply—especially the powerful eyes of the women, which conveyed a wealth of emotion.
Though photography was prohibited, the images remain vivid in my memory.
I stayed at Jetwing Vil Uyana, a property designed around different ecosystems. My Paddy Dwelling overlooked rice fields. That evening, I joined a naturalist guide on a night hike in search of the elusive loris, a nocturnal small primate. Though we didn’t spot one, we encountered snakes, insects, and even peacocks sleeping in trees. It was magical.
My third UNESCO site was the Dambulla Cave Temple complex, and I was enchanted, thrilled…mesmerized. Built into the base of a massive rock, the five caves are adorned with murals and statues of Buddha dating back to the first century AD. The artistry even in the ceilings—bright, delicate, and spiritually profound—left me in awe. There are 153 Buddha statues in various poses, alongside gods, goddesses, and kings who contributed to the temple’s legacy.
As I entered the caves, my inner Indiana Jones awakened—I felt the same awe he must have felt when uncovering ancient relics, along with a profound sense of how vital it is to preserve these treasures in their original setting, rather than relocating them to distant museums. These caves are a testament to that commitment, carefully preserved to maintain the integrity of the past.
I spent quiet moments alone, absorbing the energy and reverence that filled the space. I didn’t want to leave.
TO BE CONTINUED…..
I first visited Singapore when I was 17 years old, technically I visited when I was one, but that doesn’t really count as I was apparently being babysat by a flight crew while held in quarantine (long story).
At 17, I remember walking through the main areas and seeing open land, wondering if any kind of urban development would ever take shape. Many of the buildings you see today did not exist back then. Fast forward to the age of 23, I was beginning year one of a three-year Chartered Financial Analyst exam process, at a time when only 7,200 CFA holders existed in the world. The plan was to finish three years, pass all three exams, and move to either Hong Kong or Singapore.
Well life had a different path for me, and I now have a fun job, getting to still play with numbers, and most importantly, I get to spend time with all of you.
That’s what made this year’s ILTM Asia in Singapore such a smashing success for us. It brought me back to Singapore, allowed me to walk along the famed F1 track on my way from the hotel to the expo center, and gave me a chance to see all the changes. At our exhibit booth, I was also able to spend time with our advisor partners from Australia, New Zealand and India, having excellent meetings with them on everything, ranging from East Africa to Peru. Our BDM team, Trish in Sydney and Bhrigu in India will have plenty to do in the coming weeks building on these amazing conversations with you all.
But it wasn’t just the show. Can I take a minute and talk about the food stalls? Between the hot pots, Indian food, and the noodles, I was in heaven, and I even perfected the use of the Grab app, which for the record, works way better than the Uber app!
Enjoy this week’s video, featuring the sights and sounds of Singapore and ILTM Asia.
I look forward to seeing many of you again in Las Vegas or Cannes for the next ILTM.
We started off the year sharing my father’s work, an alphabet he was working on at the time of his passing. At the end of 2024, we found his complete work and are releasing each letter throughout the year. This week, we share the next letter.
I– Inspiration – “The only way to do great work is to love what you do.” – Steve Jobs
Without a reason, without motivation, nothing happens. If we don’t know ‘why’ to do something, if we don’t have a reason to do it, then we often don’t do it. In the big picture of human life, Inspiration is like a powerful engine that pushes us to do great things, overcome tough situations, and discover their purpose. It’s like a guiding light that sparks excitement and determination in us to chase after our dreams without giving up. Throughout history, many amazing people have said that inspiration played a huge role in their success. Whether it came from important people, personal moments, or big events, inspiration has this special ability to change lives. Some may argue that inspiration is momentary and that it alone cannot guarantee success. While it is true that inspiration must be together with dedication and hard work.
Inspiration serves as the initial spark, the fuel that propels us forward on our journey towards success.
Inspiration is a guiding force, shaping our values, beliefs, and actions. It gives us the courage to pursue our dreams, to take risks, and to persevere when the going gets tough.
Inspirational stories of success over adversity remind us of the resilience of the human spirit and its capacity to bring about positive change.
Inspirational stories of people overcoming tough times remind us how strong we can be and how much good we can do
In a world where there’s a lot of negativities, feeling Inspired gives us hope. It brings people together, no matter where they’re from or what they believe.
In Summary: Inspiration is super powerful. It can change lives and make the world better. When we feel inspired, we can conquer tough stuff and aim for big goals. It helps us figure out who we are and become better. By staying inspired, we not only make our own lives better but also make the world nicer and more connected. Let’s see Inspiration as a way to make our future awesome, full of hope and achieving our dreams. When we get Inspiration we inspire others, it can create a chain reaction, making whole communities kinder and stronger. So, let’s welcome the “I” Inspiration spirit and not be afraid to dream, make things, and motivate others.
The letter “I” holds a profound spiritual significance as the ninth letter of the alphabet. It serves as a symbol of the self, individuality, and personal Inspiration.
Stay tuned for letter J
